First (and Second) OHW Event

First time from OHW

When I mentioned this in my last blog post, I was thinking of specific event in Boston. However, a quick memory recheck unveiled that the Boston event was the second one meeting a hotwife couple from OHW. The first was with a couple from the American heartland—Kansas to be exact. It was my first (and thus far only) trip I’ve made to Kansas. But it was a memorable one. It started off without any initial intention of meeting. I responded to a post of hers regarding how a relationship of theirs with a black man had soured. They moved to a poly relationship, inviting him into their home, but it didn’t end well. I told her I was sorry to hear this happened as I enjoyed reading about their adventures and seeing their pics. Well, she responded to my post via a PM, thanking me for my concern and then she began asking questions—as she tried to see the lifestyle from the other guy’s perspective. This grew into a more intimate conversation to the point where she said she would love to meet if I was ever in their area. No expectations mind you other than drink s and good conversation. This is sort of where I developed my motto you see in my signature—expect nothing, but prepare for anything. 

It so happened I was going to be in TX for a conference and I told her if she was still interested, I could adjust my flight to swing by Kansas on my way home. She was happy to hear it and thus the meeting was set. We finalized the meeting via phone while I was in TX the day before the meeting. She and her husband were excited to meet—so much so that she did something she had never done for an FB—she got a mani-pedi just for the meeting. Well, now, folks that know me will know what that does for me. People think I have a foot fetish—but I really don’t. I will explain that in a later post. So I flew into Kansas the next day, checked into my hotel, and called to say I arrived. We agreed to meet at my hotel and then head out for drinks downtown—my hotel was by the airport. She looked great—long, flowing blonde hair, fitted jeans and blouse, and, yes, sandals with pink nail polish. Great conversation with both of them. Like the New Orleans couple, they had a preference her having fun with black men, and again, nothing to do with the IR video cuckcolding stuff you see. Again, I will go light on the details, other than to write we had a great time back in the hotel room. He watched, got involved, watched some more, and took a few pics. A memorable event was as it was just before her birthday; she wished to have a birthday spanking. So who was I not to oblige.. Such a lovely rear she had—smooth and supple.  I didn’t get a chance to connect with them in person again, but  we stayed in touch until they decided to leave the lifestyle. I certainly missed chatting with her.

This brings me to my second OHW meeting that occurred in Boston. Just about the time I met the Kansas couple, I received a PM from a husband in the New England area. He had been reading my posts in the group and felt like my understanding of the lifestyle was a good fit for what they were looking for. So I responded and we PMed back and forth as we continued to figure out what they wanted. They were new to the lifestyle, thus far only meeting with guys they already knew and were looking to experience a guy whom they met from the lifestyle. They wanted someone with a little experience, but more importantly, understood he was not there to take the place of the husband—but to enhance their sexual relationship. Something I think is right in my wheelhouse. So after a couple months of chatting, they felt it was time she joined the conversation. She had to feel comfortable with the guy as well. It was a great get to know you time over a few weeks. I had a trip in late summer in Boston and he felt that’d be a good time to meet if the conversations with the wife went well. Well, she agreed to meet on my trip there also and thus the meeting was set. This was the first planned meeting where no pictures were exchanged prior. Sometimes you just get a good feeling that each will find each other attractive. This was one of those times. They drove there and stayed at hotel on the wharf. Great views of the harbor. We met in the hotel lobby and ventured up to the club room of the hotel for snacks and drink. She was a petite brunette, wearing a white, fitted knit dress, and yes, sandals and polished nails. This color she choose specifically as during our previous conversations she managed to coax out what some of my favorite polish colors are. She made a great choice.  So after drinks, we went to dinner across the street and then back to the room. Again, I won’t give too many details here. He was more of a watcher than the other husbands,, getting enjoyment of watching her enjoy herself. A great time again, with the fun starting with a foot massage. Yes I give great foot massages. Unlike the first two couples, there were subsequent meetings—however, life as well as distance got in the way and the meetings stopped. I believe they still dabble in the lifestyle and I would welcome the opportunity to meet with them again. Hopefully they’ll read this blog and respond!!

 

OK, that’s probably enough for this post. I think I might delve more into the theme I discussed earlier—nail polish and sandals. Or, perhaps start the discussion of my first, semi-regular hotwife whom I interestingly met through a Yahoo group. I will figure something out.

 

 

The Big Easy!!

OK, next update for my journey in the HW lifestyle. I’ve already documented my first foray into the lifestyle. A totally unexpected event. The second event was the first planned event for me. But as with any journey, there were some unexpected occurrences. OK, so a few months after my first time (Orlando), I discovered a phenomenon known as Yahoo groups. While perusing these groups I noticed a number of them had a distinct personals theme—that is couples and singles used them as advertisements to meet people for all sorts of encounters. Well, I had a trip to New Orleans scheduled about 6 months from then so I searched and found a New Orleans based Yahoo group that was centered on a famed swinger club there. I joined the group and kept up with the messages on a regular basis. At the time, I was a bit tentative when it came to contacting couples—unsure how to approach without offending. I’ve learned over the years however, if you just be yourself and respectful, most couples are at least amenable to reading and responding—provided you don’t already fall into one of their preferred categories. So while perusing one day, I came across an interesting post-one that later opened my eyes to another facet of the HW lifestyle—interracial desires. We’ve seen this explode in the adult video industry to the point where objectification has occurred as it’s mainly portrayed as a white couple with a less than capable husband and the big black strong and powerful black male. As we know, nothing could be further from the truth as most white couples I’ve met aren’t anywhere in this area. They simply have a preference that is defined by the wife having fun with men of color. Nothing more, nothing less.

Back to the post. They were a couple in the area, looking for their (I should say her) first experience with a black male. Their post intrigued me because they were specific in one other area—they wanted to do this with someone not local. They had tried the swinger club route, but didn’t find any guys that met their standard. So I decided to contact them—not expecting them to respond. Well, what transpired was a three-month long get to know you email conversation with all three of us. We each discovered our likes and dislikes and found them to be a match. This culminated in the agreement to meet on my trip to New Orleans that Spring. Fast forward to that eventful day, my hotel check-in experience, thinking back, foreshadowed a greet meeting. Twice during check-in, the hotel had issues with my room and they eventually upgraded me to a full suite (no extra charge). So after a dinner meeting, I called them to let them know the meeting was still on—a very important item that should happen for every meeting. Nothing worse than being stood up with no communication whatsoever. We met at a nearby hotel—a very good looking couple. She was a little older than he, petite, red hair and, and wearing black slacks and fitted blouse, black strap sandals and polished finger and toenails (a theme you will see throughout my hotwife adventures).He was muscular and athletic. We discussed how all got into the lifestyle and reiterated their desire for a black man for her..  Well, after a drink and more talking, they decided they wished to take the night further—and I agreed. So we walked to my hotel and up to my room. I told them about my check-in experience so they knew we were going to a suite.

Everyone got comfortable and the evening took off from there. The usual fun stuff happened, so I won’t go into t oo many details—I know how us voyeuristic guys want to hear all the details. However, ladies may be reading this and some of that doesn’t interest them. They are more concerned with how satisfied the wife is in the tryst. He was the type of husband who liked to watch some, get involved some and then watch some more. It started out with him watching and ended with him watching, but he was quite involved throughout—making certain she was receiving maximum pleasure. This is what I think all true HW couples look for—the wife receiving maximum pleasure.  I will provide one detail of the evening that I remember to this day—she commented during the fun, “I hope this feels as good to you as it does to me.” And I had to say it did. A great night had by all. Unfortunately, we never were able to connect again on subsequent trips to New Orleans. C’est la vie I guess, but for that night, I satisfied a couple’s fantasy.